This is the first day I have sat down at my computer since the boys arrived....about a week ago. They don't seem to take naps at the same time. Wyatt needs his earlier and the boys later, so there isn't time. We just got back from visiting Jess. I took all three boys up and we stayed for about 4 hours. Sara and Jess kept Wyatt...I am not sure that was the best decision...he is the one that does not understand that every human being reclining is not a trampoline, but that is what they wanted. He went down for a nap...and the older boys came back home with me. They will watch a movie here upstairs, so I can get back to normal a little bit. Wyatt is a moving, going machine and has to be watched every minute, so I kept to the downstairs. We have all gotten along just fine and I have been blessed with energy to care for them...I am sure it is the prayers that have been offered in our behalf...and I appreciate it very much.
Jess is doing as well as he can. He is in constant pain...that goes above and beyond the reach of pain killers...but the burns are reported to be looking much better. The real story is on his right leg from slightly above the knee to the ankle ...he has 100% of his leg burned front and back ...on the left leg there are only a few burns on the shin. He showed me some pictures that he took in the hospital and to be blunt it looks like some one carved a leg out of a raw beef roast....the pants he wore did not burn...they are made to take high temperatures...but his leg skin was not built for the same heat endurance. It was the radiant heat that got him...thank goodness his lungs were not involved...they would have been cooked. He did see a local specialist yesterday and the Dr. said everything was looking good.
Right now our prayers need to be for Sara. She has her hands full trying to make him comfortable, changing his bandages and making every attempt at making him happy....he thinks he is being a good patient...I said I had heard that he had been being a "pill"...and he told me he wasn't aware of it......of course he always thinks he is being "good".....hmmmm!? Maybe he will try harder.... Maybe Sara might need a break and she and I could change places and I could take care of him while she came down with the boys and Papa...it's an idea...who knows?
With only two boys, maybe I can get my house back in order...we have tracked in mud from the rains, tracked in ripe plums from shoes smashing them as they walked on the drive way or in the yard and just various other stains...so I will get to that soon and shampoo it. It doesn't matter...it will all get done eventually....dirt never really killed anyone....and if it does now...oh, well! We are beyond caring at this point. I was afraid that once the boys visited at home they might not want to come back...but they climbed in the car and said goodbye to Mom, Dad and Wyatt. We will go back for a visit in a few days. In the mean time we have our little routine. We get good rest at night and seek to have fun everyday....and it is fun to be with these boys, even though the circumstances have been unfortunate.
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Keep up the good work May! I love you! You should bring them down here?! Anyway, it was good to see them. Jess is so lucky to have Sara... she's one of the neatest people I've met. Don't forget to take care of YOU! I love you! Mmmmwwwwhhhhaaaaaa!
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